The principal of the school, Karen Probst, a woman.
The school counselor, also a woman.
Mother 1 wanted to call the police immediately, and that's when she was given the "Mr. Heart of Gold" speech. By the principal. And the counselor. Two women.
It's not about gender here. Protecting power is about protecting power.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/22/penn-state-scandal-jerry-sandusky-victim-mother_n_1108979.html?page=2
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I am horrified, like everyone else, about the sexual abuse news from Penn State. And can we PLEASE stop calling it a "sex scandal"? "Scandal" implies some sort of delicious gossip about celebrities; this is just horrifying. And "sex" implies consent. This was not "sex" with consent but the rape of children. Go read these powerful posts right now:
One message is pretty clear, and it's an old message: Power consolidates and protects itself, even at the risk of missing a heinous crime; and those who want to challenge that culture are dissuaded from doing so, sometimes forcefully and sometimes by a more subtle degree of intimidation. Buried deep in one article about the courageous boy and his mother who came forward is this:
It's all part of the culture of silence that allows predators to continue their activities.
- Historiann on the culture of coverups and more.
- Clio Bluestocking on how institutions do nothing and pass along the problem to protect their own.
- Tenured Radical on the parallel between child sexual abuse and abuse of women on campus.
- John Scalzi on what the students should be worried about, and The Onion 's scathing piece about what the members of the news media are worried about.
- And a post from Lesboprof about another incident of rape two years ago in which a student took her own life.
One message is pretty clear, and it's an old message: Power consolidates and protects itself, even at the risk of missing a heinous crime; and those who want to challenge that culture are dissuaded from doing so, sometimes forcefully and sometimes by a more subtle degree of intimidation. Buried deep in one article about the courageous boy and his mother who came forward is this:
Increasingly worried about the boy's behavior, including his reaction to the phone calls from Sandusky, Gillum said the victim's mother asked school officials to help identify the problem. Gillum said the boy eventually told a school official that "there was an issue" with Sandusky, although the boy declined to elaborate.Gillum said a school official relayed the information to the boy's mother in a meeting.She felt she was being dissuaded because she was being dissuaded. The message there was clear: "He has power; you have none. He is important; you and your son are not. Are you sure that you want to bring down the @#$%^storm of misery that reporting is going to bring with it? Because, trust me, it's going to hurt you more than it's going to hurt Mr. Heart of Gold."
The official, who Gillum declined to identify, then reminded the mother of Sandusky's solid reputation in the community. The psychologist said the official characterized Sandusky as having "a heart of gold."
The mother told the psychologist that the official advised her to think about the situation for a few days before taking any action.
"She was angry," Gillum said. "She was upset about that and felt that she was being dissuaded" from taking action. The mother did not respond to a request for an interview.
It's all part of the culture of silence that allows predators to continue their activities.
2 comments:
Thank you for the link.
You are right, "sex scandal" is not really an accurate description. It is "sex abuse news."
The kid in the case that you quote seems to also have been picking up on the same message that his mother did as you can see through his reluctance to report what was happening to him. He was a kid, he probably thought, and who was going to beleive him against a big, powerful, and popular adult? That gave the adult the cover. Thank goodness his mother kept pushing.
Yes, thank goodness for that. I saw another report where the despicable Mr. Heart of Gold tried to blame the children, as is typical in these cases, saying that they misunderstood/made things up.
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